I can't believe Finn has been part of our family for almost a month now. I am starting to understand what everyone means when they say there isn't time for stuff like this when you're a parent! haha. Much to tell but for now, am going to post this cute video. He's going to grow up so fast, so I'm glad we're capturing the tiny-baby stuff! This is of him strengthening his neck muscles during 'tummy time' - Captivating stuff!
- mama T
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Finn's Labor & Birth Story
In case any of you were wondering how Finn’s birth went, (and mostly for my own posterity in order to remember my version of things!) I decided to write down the details of the crazy labor and birth experience. This is a little long but full of details……
So we had been told by our midwife/OB-GYN staff that they like to get mom’s “with A.M.A” delivered near their due date. Oh my gosh, I thought, I’ve got some kind of weird condition I didn’t know about?! No – just means that I’m OLD! AMA=advanced maternal age=over 35. Geez! We asked them to give us a few days past our due date before they induce, in order to give him a chance to come on his own. We had scheduled that for Friday the 6th. By Wednesday, Nov. 4th, 2 days after he was due, I woke to some new cramping that I was unsure of. This ended up being the start of his early labor, thank goodness! We went into their office that morning for a fetal heart monitoring session, something they routinely do for mothers past their due date, just to make sure all is going well. During the monitoring session, my contractions were running about 5-6 minutes apart. By the end of the 40-minute session, they suggested we head right over next door to the hospital for an extended monitoring, as they were a little concerned with his heart “decelerations” that were occurring after each of my contractions. More than likely, this meant that we’d be staying and having him that day or the next, so we realized that we weren’t going home. Luckily, we had packed the car with all the gear that morning, and Truen & Julia were ready to go watch our stinky baby Cheddar for a few days! Seeing how it was then about noon, I suggested we run quick and grab a “last lunch” before baby arrived, so of course, we swung by Taco Bell! After being admitted, we were ushered into our labor and delivery room, which was a nice corner suite with a pretty view of the surrounding hills. Shortly after being hooked up to all the monitors, our midwife came in and decided to speed up our process by breaking my bag of waters. This was around 1pm and I was measuring about 3cm. This was the start of a long labor that we chose to experience without pain medication if avoidable. I’m so lucky that my husband is a supportive and fully-involved partner. He quickly got in the groove of coaching me through the Lamaze breathing, rubbing my back, and offering words of encouragement. After several hours of labor, I wasn’t making much progress down there, and our midwife started to become concerned with baby’s heart pattern again. She brought in the on-call physician, Dr. McCann, and together, with us, decided that if things didn’t start looking better, we would be headed towards a C-section. This of course saddened me greatly, but I was willing to do whatever was necessary to deliver baby Finn successfully. Dr. McCann allowed us to take some more time to find a more comfortable labor position before making the final decision to go ahead with the cesarean. It was now probably around 8pm. Luckily, we found a position, sitting on the exercise ball and leaning against the bed, that seemed to be less stressful for Finn. This would become the position that we spent the next 6-7 hours of active labor in. Since I still hadn’t made much progress (maybe now 4cm) and since we had temporarily averted the immediate need for a c-section, they started me on a low dose of Pitocin to help speed along my contractions. This intensified things quite a bit! My account of the next several hours is quite hazy. My contractions were about 3 minutes apart, and both Jeff and I had to employ every relaxing coping skill we knew. I can honestly say, after having 37 years under my belt and many hours of tattoo work done, that I have never known such intense pain. Staying relaxed became a brand-new challenge every couple of minutes. I thank Jeff so much for doing all the things he did to get me through it. They steadily increased my pitocin level for the next several hours and by about 3am, I felt myself teetering on the edge of my threshold. Those last few hours of my labor are a complete blur. I really have no idea how I did it that long! The midwife checked me and said I was then at about 6cm, which frustrated me greatly – 14 hours of intense labor for a measily 3 cm advancement?! And 4 left to go?! The midwife recommended that I get an epidural at that point, since I was so exhausted and there was no telling how much longer we’d have to labor through those last 4 cm. I was in no mood to argue, and greatly encouraged her to make it happen asap! The anesthesiologist got there quickly and had me hooked up by 3:30. And here’s where things start happening REAL fast………….
With my lower extremities starting to get numb, I laid back down in the bed and after a couple contractions, turned to Dr. McCann and said:
Teesha: It kinda feels like I have to poop
McCann: Oh really? Maybe we should check you and see what’s going on
Midwife: Oh wow, you are a 10! Give us a little push………….Yup, his head is right there, let’s have this baby!
The next several minutes are a complete blur – more people came into the room, I told Jeff to turn on the video camera, he was instructed to put his gloves on quick if he was going to help, I was told to turn to the side and grab behind my legs and push a few times…………..
So after 14 hours of natural labor without pain medication, and after only half an hour with an epidural and about 4 minutes of pushing – out he came, with his daddy helping to pull him out!!! Born at 3:50 am on 11/5, weighing 7 lb. 6 oz. and 19 inches long. They whisked him to the other side of the room quickly to clear out any merconium that could have gotten into his lungs, the midwife distracted us for a little bit by showing us the placenta, and he was placed him in my arms minutes later with a clean bill of health and very high apgar scores! I was shaking (from the epidural medication) and joyous and overwhelmed and totally pumped with adrenelin and amazement! Jeff and I looked like we both got plopped into an alien world! I vaguely remember whatever they did to clean me up (was pretty quick-I hadn’t even torn) and clear out of the room, I just remember holding my new baby, gawking at my husband, taking pictures, and overflowing with emotions. It was the most incredible experience of my life and I still can’t believe it happened to us. We haven’t watched the birth video yet, so I don’t know if my account is totally accurate, but this is how I remember it! Every agonizing second was worth it, when I get to look down into this perfect, precious face sitting beside me right now. My cup is overflowing in a way I could never think possible. I’m so glad Jeff and I were given the opportunity to be parents. Now our objective is to be the best ones we can be. Finn deserves no less. We love you so much little man!!!!
So we had been told by our midwife/OB-GYN staff that they like to get mom’s “with A.M.A” delivered near their due date. Oh my gosh, I thought, I’ve got some kind of weird condition I didn’t know about?! No – just means that I’m OLD! AMA=advanced maternal age=over 35. Geez! We asked them to give us a few days past our due date before they induce, in order to give him a chance to come on his own. We had scheduled that for Friday the 6th. By Wednesday, Nov. 4th, 2 days after he was due, I woke to some new cramping that I was unsure of. This ended up being the start of his early labor, thank goodness! We went into their office that morning for a fetal heart monitoring session, something they routinely do for mothers past their due date, just to make sure all is going well. During the monitoring session, my contractions were running about 5-6 minutes apart. By the end of the 40-minute session, they suggested we head right over next door to the hospital for an extended monitoring, as they were a little concerned with his heart “decelerations” that were occurring after each of my contractions. More than likely, this meant that we’d be staying and having him that day or the next, so we realized that we weren’t going home. Luckily, we had packed the car with all the gear that morning, and Truen & Julia were ready to go watch our stinky baby Cheddar for a few days! Seeing how it was then about noon, I suggested we run quick and grab a “last lunch” before baby arrived, so of course, we swung by Taco Bell! After being admitted, we were ushered into our labor and delivery room, which was a nice corner suite with a pretty view of the surrounding hills. Shortly after being hooked up to all the monitors, our midwife came in and decided to speed up our process by breaking my bag of waters. This was around 1pm and I was measuring about 3cm. This was the start of a long labor that we chose to experience without pain medication if avoidable. I’m so lucky that my husband is a supportive and fully-involved partner. He quickly got in the groove of coaching me through the Lamaze breathing, rubbing my back, and offering words of encouragement. After several hours of labor, I wasn’t making much progress down there, and our midwife started to become concerned with baby’s heart pattern again. She brought in the on-call physician, Dr. McCann, and together, with us, decided that if things didn’t start looking better, we would be headed towards a C-section. This of course saddened me greatly, but I was willing to do whatever was necessary to deliver baby Finn successfully. Dr. McCann allowed us to take some more time to find a more comfortable labor position before making the final decision to go ahead with the cesarean. It was now probably around 8pm. Luckily, we found a position, sitting on the exercise ball and leaning against the bed, that seemed to be less stressful for Finn. This would become the position that we spent the next 6-7 hours of active labor in. Since I still hadn’t made much progress (maybe now 4cm) and since we had temporarily averted the immediate need for a c-section, they started me on a low dose of Pitocin to help speed along my contractions. This intensified things quite a bit! My account of the next several hours is quite hazy. My contractions were about 3 minutes apart, and both Jeff and I had to employ every relaxing coping skill we knew. I can honestly say, after having 37 years under my belt and many hours of tattoo work done, that I have never known such intense pain. Staying relaxed became a brand-new challenge every couple of minutes. I thank Jeff so much for doing all the things he did to get me through it. They steadily increased my pitocin level for the next several hours and by about 3am, I felt myself teetering on the edge of my threshold. Those last few hours of my labor are a complete blur. I really have no idea how I did it that long! The midwife checked me and said I was then at about 6cm, which frustrated me greatly – 14 hours of intense labor for a measily 3 cm advancement?! And 4 left to go?! The midwife recommended that I get an epidural at that point, since I was so exhausted and there was no telling how much longer we’d have to labor through those last 4 cm. I was in no mood to argue, and greatly encouraged her to make it happen asap! The anesthesiologist got there quickly and had me hooked up by 3:30. And here’s where things start happening REAL fast………….
With my lower extremities starting to get numb, I laid back down in the bed and after a couple contractions, turned to Dr. McCann and said:
Teesha: It kinda feels like I have to poop
McCann: Oh really? Maybe we should check you and see what’s going on
Midwife: Oh wow, you are a 10! Give us a little push………….Yup, his head is right there, let’s have this baby!
The next several minutes are a complete blur – more people came into the room, I told Jeff to turn on the video camera, he was instructed to put his gloves on quick if he was going to help, I was told to turn to the side and grab behind my legs and push a few times…………..
So after 14 hours of natural labor without pain medication, and after only half an hour with an epidural and about 4 minutes of pushing – out he came, with his daddy helping to pull him out!!! Born at 3:50 am on 11/5, weighing 7 lb. 6 oz. and 19 inches long. They whisked him to the other side of the room quickly to clear out any merconium that could have gotten into his lungs, the midwife distracted us for a little bit by showing us the placenta, and he was placed him in my arms minutes later with a clean bill of health and very high apgar scores! I was shaking (from the epidural medication) and joyous and overwhelmed and totally pumped with adrenelin and amazement! Jeff and I looked like we both got plopped into an alien world! I vaguely remember whatever they did to clean me up (was pretty quick-I hadn’t even torn) and clear out of the room, I just remember holding my new baby, gawking at my husband, taking pictures, and overflowing with emotions. It was the most incredible experience of my life and I still can’t believe it happened to us. We haven’t watched the birth video yet, so I don’t know if my account is totally accurate, but this is how I remember it! Every agonizing second was worth it, when I get to look down into this perfect, precious face sitting beside me right now. My cup is overflowing in a way I could never think possible. I’m so glad Jeff and I were given the opportunity to be parents. Now our objective is to be the best ones we can be. Finn deserves no less. We love you so much little man!!!!
Sunday, November 8, 2009
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